Mocktails & Munchies: How to Create a Stunningly Simple Patriotic Party Theme

You know all of those fancy, color-coordinated, beautifully table-scaped dessert displays you see on blogs and all over Pinterest?  The ones that make it obvious they had an entire team of people with a slew of professional equipment and (conveniently) an entire collection of coordinating themed dishes and table linens to pull it off?  The ones you confidently attempt to replicate and an hour before showtime find yourself hiding in a dark corner drowning your failure in a package of double-stuff Oreos and smashed cake pops that look like a 4 year old made them?  I know you know.

Patriotic Party from Our Best Bites

I’m here to let you in on a few secrets.  And I’m not lying; pinkie swear.  These are all easy ways to create an impressive spread!  Like, we’re talking short-cut, looks-impressive kind of tricks.  First, mark my words: you can make anything color-coordinated, darling, and show-stopping, with these two things:  sprinkles and M&M’s.  My first stop whenever I need to plan a fun party table is my local party store where I can stock up on the colored candies.  If you didn’t know, you can purchase M&M’s candies in bulk at most party supply stores, and they sell them individually by color.  (You might remember I stocked up on navy blue and white for my March Madness party)

M&M's

You can even find patriotic mixes this time of year in stores that sell bulk candy.  I snapped this picture just yesterday at my local Winco store.

M and M

It’s an awesome, and easy way to pull a coordinated party together.  Kate came to visit me recently, and since we rarely get to see one another in person, we wanted to throw this little get together, but we absolutely did not want to spend her entire visit slaving away in the kitchen!  So we literally pulled this all together in a matter of hours and had plenty of time to socialize with friends and family (and snuggle babies- how cute is Kate’s little guy??)

Kate and Baby

Everything in this spread has a super simple short-cut version so it really is simple!  And what’s even better, you can make it all ahead of time.  You could make all of these fun things with any color scheme you want, but for our patriotic party, we went with red, white, and blue.

Patriotic M&M's

First thing: M&M Chocolate Chip Cookie Ice Cream Sandwiches.  Oh-my-gosh-yum.  Now, you can make your favorite chocolate chip cookie dough and add M&M candies (here’s my favorite) or you can make the shortcut version like we did.  Grab a tube of chocolate chip cookie dough from the grocery store and smash some of the M&M’s right on top.  I’ve actually discovered it works best to cook the cookies for half of the suggested time, and then pop the M&M’s on there and finish baking.

M&M Cookies

When they’re done and cooled, sandwich them together with softened vanilla ice cream and then for best results re-freeze them before you serve.  Soft sweet chocolate-studded cookies with cold vanilla ice cream is one of the best things in life.

Ice Cream Sammies

Next up: Pretzel Sparklers!  Drizzle melted almond bark (like white chocolate, sold in bricks in the baking aisle or online) over large pretzel rods,

Dipping Pretzels

and sprinkle on the goodies.

Pretzel Rods

These are always a kid-favorite at parties, and bonus is that they have a salty-sweet combo that adults love too.

M and M Sparklers

You should have heard my squeals in the middle of the grocery store when I saw that they make mini ice cream cones.  These are quite possibly the most adorable things I’ve ever seen in my life, second only to my own offspring.  They’re only about an inch and a half tall and perfect for one cookie-scoop of ice cream!

Mini Ice Cream Cones from Our Best Bites

I got some help from Kate’s cute daughter, who agreed about the level of adorableness of these cones.

Making Mini Cones with Kiddo

Since we already had melted almond bark, we dipped the very top of the cones in it and then added sprinkles and mini M&M’s.  These dry fast and can be stored in a container until you’re ready to use them.

We also decided that our jobs would be so much easier if we were both working on each photo shoot.  We’ve never done a post like this together, and having two people working and two people with cameras was crazy-awesome.

Making Mini cones

Those little mini cones are perfect for mini hands.

Mini Cones

The other thing that’s easy for  mini hands are ice cream sandwiches on sticks!  I swear those chocolate cookies are the messiest things on the planet.  Buy a box of sandwiches from the store, stick a popsicle stick in them and dunk the sides of the sandwich in sprinkles or M&M’s or both.  5 minutes and done.

Ice Cream Sandwich Pops

At least that way the mess stays on the face instead of the hands.

Messy Face Kiddo

Here’s another one of my go-to party desserts: mini trifles.  You can make them in any sort of container; little plastic cups are perfect for big groups.  The only thing we baked was a .88 cent bag of brownie mix from the store that took about 30 seconds to mix up.  We then layered the cooled brownie chunks, sliced berries, and cool whip (or you could do whipped cream) on top.  It’s also great with cubed pound cake or angel food cake, but we wanted to stick to choc-0-late to go with our M&M’s!

Easy Brownie Trifles from Our Best Bites

It’s always good to have something that people can munch on in small quantities, and popcorn is always a crowd pleaser.  Just coat plain popped popcorn with melted almond bark and then sprinkle with M&M’s and sprinkles.  So easy and so yummy.  We tossed in a few handfuls of salted peanuts as well.  Again, 5 minute project!

Patriotic Popcorn

You can find cute little containers like patterned cups and fry boxes at party stores, and places like Orson Gygi.

Patriotic Popcorn in Containers

How cute are these little flag cookies??  Our easy short-cut version:  Take a tube of store-bought sugar cookie dough and press it into a foil lined 8×8 pan.  When it’s cooled, remove from pan, cut into rectangles and spread a layer of frosting over the top.  Recruit some helpers to start making flags!  Not a fan of store-bought dough?  Just make your own- here’s our favorite recipe.

Easy American Flag Cookies from Our Best Bitess

We’ve got tons of great mocktails on this site, check out our beverage section for tons of family-friendly sips, like our Layered Patriotic Punch!

Straws

Recently, I introduced my kids to Italian Sodas, and found out my husband had never had one before either.  Wha…???  It rocked their worlds and they’ve been asking for them ever since.  Kate had a similar experience recently as well, so we went with a red, white and blue Italian (yes, the irony isn’t lost on us) soda bar.

Patriotic Spread from Our Best Bites

If you’ve never had an Italian Soda either, check out this fun how-to graphic from Orson Gygi.  Stores like World Market have a great selection of flavored syrups.

Italian Soda Fun

Coconut syrup is great for your “white,” or we actually used Pina Colada mix!

Italian Soda

The Target dollar section is my best friend when it comes to no-fuss get togethers.  I grabbed cute tablecloths there, some festive plastic plates, and some favors for the kiddos.

Kid Favors

We had silly glasses,

Goofy Girls

and brightly colored glow sticks,

Glow Sticks

and when the sun went down, we busted out the sparklers.

Lighting Sparklers

Because what’s a patriotic party without a little sparkle?

Kids and Sparklers

When our friends took off, we had little goodies to send them on their way.  These darling tags are free for you to download!  (See end of post.) Fill up little bags of M&M’s for a festive treat.

Patriotic Printables from Our Best Bites

You can fold them over little cellophane baggies, or use some cute washi tape to stick them to just about anything.  They were custom designed for us by West & Main Design, check out her cute Etsy shop, we love it!

Patriotic Printables

Now you’re all set to create one killer party, and no one has to know about all of the short cuts!  Grab some M&M’s and a few store-bought goodies and you will surely be the best host on the block!

Click Here to Download the Free “Let Freedom Ring” Printables!

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  1. Lots of cute ideas. The sparklers are out though. Can you believe they’re illegal in my state?

  2. My girls have birthdays a month apart, so a month before birthday season, I head to Oriental Trading Company and order a couple party packs. They come with themed plates, cups, napkins, and matching balloons, streamers, table cloth, invitations… and probably other stuff I can’t remember.
    If I added M&Ms and sprinkles, I might as well just charge people to enjoy the awesomeness of my children’s parties. 😉

  3. and “The ones you confidently attempt to replicate and an hour before showtime find yourself hiding in a dark corner drowning your failure in a package of double-stuff Oreos and smashed cake pops that look like a 4 year old made them? I know you know.”
    oh my gosh you are hilarious. You DO know.

  4. I LOVE this post! So agree with you about Pinterest too. I mean, don’t get me wrong- I love it. But this kind of party is way more my style than some of those photo shoot uber-styled versions you find on P. Thanks! (ps, I had absolutely no plans to host a 4th party, but now I really want to!)

  5. Super cute!!! That is awesome you both were able to get your families together for a fun visit!

  6. Adorable and super amazing! You guys are really creative and never fail to impress me 🙂

  7. I want to know who you suckered into blowing up all those balloons behind the table! Great ideas!

    1. Oh my gosh Monica, lol. I need to go add a whole novel about the balloons to this post! It’s a perfect example of the problem in the first paragraph when bloggers give you ideas that turn out to be nightmares, haha. Why did we listen to those craft bloggers that said balloon backdrops were totally awesome and super easy?? It was a crazy headache, and our sweet friend Laura blew up almost ALL of them! I will have to show you a behind-the-scenes of that part, haha.

  8. Popsicle sticks in ice cream sandwiches. That has totally changed my life. And not like the cliche changed my life, but literally changed my life. We will never eat ice cream sandwiches the same way again! Chocolate goo is tasty, but so hard to get off little hands. And so easy for little hands to sneakily touch stuff without you knowing. I even have popsicle sticks in my house. Thank you for changing the world I live in 🙂

  9. I used those mini cones to bake cupcakes for my daughters ice cream party when she turned 4. Perfect for little hands and bellies without the mess of ice cream. Plus they were so darn cute!

  10. I too bouhgt the mini cones, but No tool or scopper I can find, ( melon baller or small ice scream scoop will fill them easily) I am think soft serve on them would work as the pening is so narrow- other inventive ideas? I broke 2 mini cookie scoops that had the metal swivel lift!

  11. I absolutely LOVE your idea for easy flag cookies! I never would’ve though to use M&Ms to do that, but my daughter & I are totally making those this year. Fun! Thanks for such a great post!

  12. The Fourth is my favorite holiday to celebrate! (Probably because my birthday is the second :)) this is awesome, I will be replicating (some) of it!

  13. Oh my gosh, thank you for this post! I am hosting a 4th of July get together and had no idea how to make it cute and thematic and still easy. Love your ideas!!

  14. I love Italian Sodas! What brand is the syrup? We don’t have a World Market around here like you mentioned in your post. I would love to make them for my family too!

    I want to come hang out with you two for a day! You need to do a “Hang out baking & partying with Sara & Kate for a day” giveaway… just make sure I win, okay?!

    1. Not a bad idea! The flavored syrups are the same types used at coffee shops, brands like Torani. You can find basic flavors at grocery stores, and the more “fun” ones at specialty stores, or online.

  15. I organize a veterans day assembly at our elementary school every year and after the assembly we have a reception for all the veterans that come. These ideas will be a great way to add something new for the reception and the M&M bags will make a perfect thank you gift for all the volunteers that help. (I might also use the printables with ring pops for 4th of july, but don’t tell anyone I said that because I know this post is all about m&m’s). Ooh! I can also use the same ideas for my son’s Eagle Court of Honor. Thanks for an awesome post!

  16. Hi Ladies! FUN TIMES!!!
    I HAVE TO KNOW…. Sara; Kate shared your Ice Machine in a post…. what is the brand and where did you get it? I MUST HAVE ONE 🙂
    Thanks
    Kari

  17. Ok…so I need the recipe for Italian Sodas! I’ve never had one either! They sound delish and perfect for summer!

    1. I’m thinking I need to do a post on this! I just added a link to a fun graphic that will help. Basically, it’s sparkling soda, ice cubes, and flavored syrup, and then you add cream or half and half and top with whipped cream! Order one at your favorite coffee shop and you’ll be hooked 😉 I’ll do a recipe post some time on them!

  18. I have been waiting to see this ever since sneak peak you posted a few weeks (months?) ago! This is so completely adorable! I need to find some 4th of July guests STAT 🙂

  19. O.M.Gosh! I am dying at how amazing everything looks. Now I want to throw a party! 🙂 Ice cream sandwiches on Popsicle sticks? Brilliant! Where would one find Popsicle sticks? Are they sold at Walmart and Target?

  20. Ummm where was my invitation to this event? I think as president of your fan club, I should have been there! 😉

    No worries though. My mom aspires to (have me) recreate everything y’all do anyway. Last year our 4th of July was a spread of everything you guys have posted that was red, white, and blue. Let’s just hope she wants to copy this because it looks absolutely delightful. I love it. It looks great! As always, thanks for all of your great ideas an tips!

    1. Dude you didn’t get your invite?? I totally sent one! You’re in luck though, I still have cookie sandwiches in my freezer. Show up any time and we’ll light sparklers 😉

  21. I love this! I love how easy it is to have an awesome presentation!

    I agree about the chocolate cookies on ice cream sandwiches…they kind of turn into cakey fur on your fingers 🙂

  22. This looks so awesome! M&Ms rock! Definitely missed your Monday post, but glad to see you are back! Your site is amazing! My wife fixed the Alfredo sauce last night for dinner and it was amazing! Keep up the great work!